Flirting = Cheating .... Opinions? - Page 2

**Dudebro** · 08-18-2009, 08:17 PM

No matter what happens you never go back to him. If he wants to kill himself then let him. He's a manipulative asshole obviously.

**sezthemank** · 08-18-2009, 08:28 PM

Yeah Im gonna try my best to stay away
Its just hard really.

The refuge Im going to is a good few miles away from him.
Plus I will be very safe there.

**Winnebagel** · 08-18-2009, 10:59 PM

Congrats Sez. I know it doesn't feel great now, but I think you are making a smart move that will benefit you in the future. I hope it works out.

**sezthemank** · 08-19-2009, 06:07 AM

Im just worried now because she has to talk to my probation officer,
to see how much of a "risk" I am.

If she say that Im high risk, then Im fucked.
Im just waiting on the call right now :/

**XERQ GRANITE** · 08-19-2009, 06:52 PM

.............. Am I a bad person for wanting to die if I ever lose my fionce`??

I'm on the edge right now, the only thing holding me back is the fact that i know she loves me :/

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**Dudebro** · 08-20-2009, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by sezthemank

Yeah Im gonna try

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Originally Posted by Yoda

No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try.

Listen to Master Yoda, he speaks the truth.

@Xerq- You're not a bad person for feeling that way but you need to snap out of it. Shit happens and you move on. No one is worth dieing for.

**XERQ GRANITE** · 08-20-2009, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Dudebro

No one is worth dieing for.

Not to contradict you or anything, but she's worth EVERYTHING to me, if I lost her I'd be nothing

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**Dudebro** · 08-20-2009, 01:38 AM

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Originally Posted by XERQ GRANITE

Not to contradict you or anything, but she's worth EVERYTHING to me, if I lost her I'd be nothing

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Sorry but you're wrong, you'd still be you without her. It may hurt a lot if someone you loves leaves or dies but you can move on evetually. You'll always have some sadness and hurt feelings but in no way is your life over. You're not an idiot you know all this, you're probably just depressed and scared.

I've been in situations like this where emotions are at a breaking point. It seems like nothing matters and you just can't will yourself to go on. It's all just bullshit really. Life goes on and so do we. Live and learn right? The bad stuff makes us stronger when we get through it. Do you really wanna be one of the weak willed people who either kill themselves or waste away for no good reason?

Sorry if I sound harsh but I think you need that right now. I am only trying to help.

**XERQ GRANITE** · 08-20-2009, 02:00 AM

Well I'd explain wats got me on edge right now, but that's best saved for a l8er time :/ But ya, it's not my gf, she loves me n i love her n we both know that and i know she'd never leave me, i mean hell, we're engaged, that right there kinda shows you how much we love eachother

^_^

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**Dudebro** · 08-20-2009, 02:06 AM

What shows how much you love each other, being engaged? I don't think that proves love, just commitment really. Love is an emotion not a label.

**Kong** · 08-20-2009, 04:42 AM

Some people say that gay marriages ruin the sanctity of matrimony. That is BS. Divorces ruin it. 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. I bet only a small chunk of the other half are ending happily ever after.

Divorces are so common that marriage proves nothing. Engagements prove even less.

You are 20 years old. Calm down, it is a crush. You are too young. There is a difference between infatuation and love and you haven't been around long enough to distinguish the two.

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Originally Posted by XERQ GRANITE

If I lost her I'd be nothing

Do not tell her this. Sez's ex said things like "I will kill myself if you leave me." Saying you would be nothing is not as bad as saying you would kill yourself but it is still wrong. It is not true. Even if you think it is, it isn't. And as in Sez's situation it only served to guilt her into doing something she didn't want to do.

**sezthemank** · 08-20-2009, 01:35 PM

I had the police around today to get him,
He had me locked up, he didnt hurt me much, just punched me in the head and strangled me.
I some how escaped and phoned the police.
3 cars pulled up and somthing like 7-9 coppers jumped out.

I just hope he dont get out on bail.

Im actully really worried about him
I hope he dosnt do anything silly.

I dont wanna be with him
But I cant have his death on my concience
thats why I stayed, but now Im thinking that he shouldnt do this to me.
It gets worse and hes gonna end up killing me.

I dont want my mum to lose another daughter.

My head is wrecked!

**XERQ GRANITE** · 08-20-2009, 01:49 PM

Ya, y'know wat, FUCK HIM! I can't stand peeple who beat up on women!!! Motherfucker could just DROP DEAD right now for all I care, that's just one less to deal with...... sry, i hate that shit, my birth father's an abusive drunk bastard who used to beat me n my mom all the time

so ive grown up hating violence, i've been a pacafist like all my life......... cept for when im standing up for family and friends and peeple who just plain dont deserve what their gettin :/ All my life I've had one goal: "To make everyone in the world happy" and all my life ive been trying so hard to, but im always the one getting stabbed in the back for it

........... Well anywho, sry for rambling on about myself, just let him kill himself, he's not worth it, and if he goes after you, beat the shit outta him with whatever's close enough, it's self defence

^_^

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**ET.** · 08-24-2009, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by sezthemank

So I went back to the same pub and seen a old male friend of mine,
Told him about what happened and he jokingly asked
"Oh do you wanna sneaky one then?" (he was Joking)
But I turned around and said
"Hey why not"
I went back to his and fuck him

YIKES! I didnt really need to here that

uke:
You are better off with out him anyway, he was way too old for ya anyway.
plus if I see him, Im gonna fuck him up so you better stay away from him sarah!

**sezthemank** · 08-25-2009, 08:28 AM

Shut up JAY!
hes already fucked up.

Besides Im moving outta liverpool soon!

**Timber Wolf** · 08-25-2009, 08:38 PM

XERQ, you said "To make the world happy", as nice as it is, you know it's naive and will never be accomplished, right?

**sezthemank** · 08-26-2009, 07:16 AM

Everyone should just smoke a bong and chill the fuck out

**XERQ GRANITE** · 08-26-2009, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Timber Wolf

XERQ, you said "To make the world happy", as nice as it is, you know it's naive and will never be accomplished, right?

I know, but it's still always been my goal though :/ who knows, it could happen........ eventually

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Originally Posted by sezthemank

Everyone should just smoke a bong and chill the fuck out

Exactly, if everyone smoked weed, the world would be a better place ^_^

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**jim5cents** · 08-26-2009, 09:22 PM

@sez, required reading for a psych class i had when i was in college. if you decide to check it out, it may give you some answers concerning your relationship and problem solving goals.

http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_1_...ix=i+hate+you+

**sezthemank** · 08-27-2009, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by jim5cents

@sez, required reading for a psych class i had when i was in college. if you decide to check it out, it may give you some answers concerning your relationship and problem solving goals.

Amazon.com: i hate you don't leave me understanding the borderline personality

Thanks hun !